Embracing Church Collaborations: Part 1

Written By Merilee Singletary

Jerome, Becky, and Erica discuss their experience with initiating church collaborations in their communities.

It isn’t always easy, but the change they create is always worth it.

Summary

In this honest and encouraging episode, co-hosts Jerome, Erica, and Becky explore the realities, challenges, and rewards of church-to-church collaboration. From awkward cold calls and territorial reputations to humbling rejections and beautiful partnerships, they break down what it looks like to pursue unity among churches of all sizes and styles. Erica shares practical insights on approaching other churches with humility, curiosity, and a heart for real relationships—not just programming. Listeners are reminded that collaboration isn't about perfection—it's about persistence, love, and a shared commitment to lifting up the community together.

Key Takeaways

  • Start with Relationships: Get to know the “who’s who” in your community. Start with names, not programs.

  • Hold a Posture of Humility: Whether your church is small or the “500 lb gorilla,” be aware of how you're perceived and lead with a learning mindset.

  • Be Okay With Rejection: Not every invitation to partner will be received well—and that’s okay. Keep the door open and stay gracious.

  • Find the Overlap: When values or methods don’t match perfectly, seek out the areas of common ground where partnership is still possible.

  • Celebrate Differences, Stay Curious: Churches worship and serve differently—and that diversity can be a strength when approached with humility.

  • No Credit Needed: True collaboration isn't about banners and logos. It’s about showing up for the community with no strings attached.

  • Keep Showing Up: Community ministry is a marathon, not a sprint. Relationships deepen over time when we stay consistent.

“A church can know a church, but do you know a person? [to get things started]” -Erica

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Merilee Singletary
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